John Piper has posted two love letters over at DesiringGod.org from two great men of the faith, Jonathan Edwards and Martin Lloyd-Jones. Men, are we cherishing our wives with the eyes of Jesus? Are you looking only to be loved? We are to love our wives like Christ loves the church, and if you remember, which you do, Jesus died for His bride. I believe that selfishness breeds discontentment and even more self-love.
You and I may not be able to think and write like these two great men, but knowing my wife, I feel a little sorry for them!!